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by SILVA NEVES

Therapist specialists in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours  

Here is a list of hand-picked specialists in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours trained by Silva Neves and CICS.

Feel free to browse the listing and find a suitable therapist for you. Towards the bottom of the listing I have included Therapists offering reduced fees.

This listing guarantees that your therapist will not work with a ‘sex addiction’ model, but instead will offer a sex-positive and pluralistic approach. Each therapist on this list hold their own private practice, with their insurance and professional accrediting body. Silva Neves and SexPositivityUK is not responsible for their practice. If you need to make a complaint, please refer to the therapist’s complaint procedure.  

Dr Susannah Grant

Dr Susannah Grant

HCPC Registered Practitioner Psychologist
BPS Chartered Counselling Psychologist

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours
Bi+ individuals and mixed orientation couples/ GSRD

Locations: Online, Chilterns Buckinghamshire, UK

I have over ten years experience working with adults facing a variety of mental health and relationship challenges. You’ll find therapy with me is relational, evidence based, collaborative and affirmative. Research consistently shows that the relationship between therapist and client is a vital part of therapy and an indicator for healing and growth, and this is held at the heart of my practice. I draw on a number of different therapeutic models to best fit the needs of the clients I work with (such as ACT, CBT, existential & schema-informed therapy).

As a GSRD informed practitioner, my practice is inclusive, and based on the principle that no gender, sexuality or relationship is better, more valid, or preferable than another.

email: hello@grantpsychology.com

Eva Koumpli

Eva Koumpli 

UKCP accredited Psychotherapist and coach 

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours
Couples therapy, Chemsex, GSRD, Trauma, Eating disorders

Locations: Central London W1

Hello, I'm Eva Koumpli and it will be my privilege to work with you. I am a fully accredited psychotherapist working with individuals, couples and groups in my London clinic in Fitzrovia and online. I'm able to offer time limited, short term programmes of sessions, long term, open ended psychotherapy, couples therapy and weekly group psychotherapy. I also run personal development retreats in the UK and abroad.

I specialise in trauma, sex and relationships, eating disorders, compulsive sexual behaviours, gender identity and body image issues. I also regularly treat single event trauma, such as terrorist attack, motor accident, spiked drink, hearing shocking news like medical diagnosis, loss / bereavement, motor accident, stillbirth, abortion, difficult childbirth, IVF, medical experiences, separation, divorce.

As a holistic and creative psychotherapist, I draw on a wide range of modalities in order to create the right therapeutic approach for each individual. I engage my clients with a trauma informed approach, and as a creative psychotherapist, I incorporate creative and experiential therapy in combination with trauma and psychosexual approaches, where appropriate. I also draw on depth psychology and the work of Carl Jung, where I utilise dreams, metaphors and archetypes as a way of helping my clients deepen their relationship with their unconscious. I am a Health at Every Size® advocate, kink-informed and sex-positive.

email: eva@evakoumpli.com
tel: 07710 806969

Rachel Power

Rachel Power

Psychotherapist

Specialist areas:
Couple therapy
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Partners of People with compulsive sexual behaviours
GSRD

Locations: Online, Charlton, South East London, SE7

I offer positive help and support with a range of issues including anxiety, relationship difficulties and compulsive sexual behaviours, and an understanding that managing meaningful relationships can be complex.
I qualified as a couple and individual psychotherapist at Tavistock Relationships, with an MSc from the Department of Organisational Psychology, Birkbeck University of London. I have undertaken further training in the area of counselling for compulsive sexual behaviours. I am able to work effectively with both couples and individuals and offer a safe space for all gender, sexuality and relationship diversity. 

email: contact@cityspacecounselling.com
tel: 07588 062576

Janet King

Janet King

COSRT accredited Psychosexual psychotherapist 

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours
Couples therapy, People with sexual harmful behaviours
GSRD, Kink informed therapy

Locations: Online, Christchurch, Dorset

As an accredited psychosexual and relationship therapist, supervisor, coach, and trainer with over 25 years of experience I have been privileged to have worked with many courageous people from all walks of life, cultures, and backgrounds.
I have specialised in sexual abuse working with survivors and those who perpetrate sexual abuse and their families. I offer an environment that is supportive, warm ,confidential and free from judgement . I create a space in which you can explore any difficulties you are having, to make sense of things and live life better

email: jan@jktherapy.co.uk
tel: 07507 562278

Deborah Sless

Deborah Sless

UKCP accredited psychotherapist

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours
Relationship therapy

Locations: Online, Central London, Kentish Town/Camden Town, NW5
Marlow, Buckinghamshire, SL7

I have practised as a psychotherapist since 1992. My aim is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship to develop where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and problems/difficulties. Within a collaborative relationship you will be given the space and support to work towards healing aspects of yourself that you feel are stopping you from leading a happier and more fulfilled life.

email: deborah@wisdomtalk.co.uk
tel: 07887 512049

Keith Fowler

Keith Fowler

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist

Specialist areas:
Couple therapy–poor communication, sexual problems including mismatched sexual desire, recovery from betrayal, dealing with life stage changes, for example, having children, empty nesting and retirement.
Compulsive sexual behaviours, including partners of those with compulsive sexual behaviours.
Relationship issues arising from being on the autism spectrum.
I am Poly and Kink friendly, whilst this can be an important part of a client's life, it is not always the reason clients come to counselling.

Locations: Online, I am currently working on Zoom and will be doing so for the foreseeable future

I previously used to work with Relate as a qualified relationship therapist and I am now working in private practice, helping individuals and intimate partners with sex and relationship issues. I offer an empathic and non-shaming environment to explore issues, such as betrayals, mismatched desire and poor communication.
I help clients with sex problems, including disappointing erections, early ejaculation, vaginismus, pain on penetration, as well as low desire/arousal and problems with orgasm. In addition I work with individuals (or their partners) with sexual behaviours they feel are compulsive and/or out of control, including problematic porn use and so-called sex addiction.
I am currently studying for Diplomas in clinical sexology and compulsive sexual behaviour, hence my accessibly priced fees.

email: keith.fowler1@hotmail.co.uk
tel: 07896 644377

Vivien Burke

Vivien Burke 

Sex, Relationship and Intimacy Coach
Clinical Sexologist
Erotic Blueprint™ Master Coach
Accelerated Evolution Coach

Specialist areas:
Sexless Relationship,
Compulsive Sexual Behaviours
Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours
Couples Therapy, Chemsex, GSRD
Kink and BDSM, Porn
Difficulties with relationships: starting, sustaining or finishing a relationship, Differences in sexual desire within the relationship
Communication problems in a relationship, including frequent arguments, rows, blaming, Lack of intimacy

Locations: Online, Henley on Thames, RG9

I am Vivien Burke, I am passionate about my work and my continuing education. My working model is a sex-positive, non pathologizing, ethical, pluralistic and evidence-based approach. It means that I will use different approaches from different models to suit your needs best. I specialise in working with couples and individuals who experience difficulties in their intimate relationships and sexuality.
I have trained with Jaiya Ma a world class sex educator and Ian Ferguson of Jaiya Inc., Silva Neves course director and creator of the 2020 Compulsive Sexual Behaviour training, CICS. Satyen Raja Accelerated Evolution Transformational Coach and Orpheus Black Kink Master. I am trauma informed. I have been a coach for 20 years.

email: viv.partnershipmatters@gmail.com


Therapists Offering Reduced Fees

Louise Magee

Louise Magee

Psychosexual therapist 

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Individual client therapy

Locations: Online only

I have over ten years experience working with adults facing a variety of mental health and relationship challenges. You’ll find therapy with me is relational, evidence based, collaborative and affirmative. Research consistently shows that the relationship between therapist and client is a vital part of therapy and an indicator for healing and growth, and this is held at the heart of my practice. I draw on a number of different therapeutic models to best fit the needs of the clients I work with (such as ACT, CBT, existential & schema-informed therapy).

As a GSRD informed practitioner, my practice is inclusive, and based on the principle that no gender, sexuality or relationship is better, more valid, or preferable than another.

email: louisemageetherapy@gmail.com

Peter Carter

Peter Carter

Psychosexual Psychotherapist, Registered Nurse

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Chemsex, GSRD, Kink
Men who have sex with men, ‘coming-out’, living with HIV

Locations: Online only

I am a skilled psycho-sexual health practitioner / sex therapist offering a whole-health approach to the management of sexual worries, problems, and disorders. I work within a pluralistic model of psychosexual psychotherapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) to bring a sex-positive, shame-free approach to enhancing sexual health, self-identity and well-being. My aim is for you to move-closer to where you want to be. To move-closer to 'you' as an individual, to move-closer to sexual satisfaction, and to move-closer to the relationship(s) you desire. I do not work within a sex addiction model, but rather work together, towards a felt-sense of self-acceptance - not sexual abstinence.

email: petercarter@email.com
tel: 07973 740787

Kostana Banjac

Kostana Banjac 

Trainee clinical sexologist and CSB specialist

Specialist areas:
Female compulsive sexual behaviours
Female sexual dysfunctions
Partners of people with compulsive sexual behaviours

Locations: Online, Central London, NW1, W1, WC1

I am a highly motivated, dedicated and clinically competent Clinical Sexologist. My personal philosophy is one based on honesty, integrity and trust. I am a committed therapist who places the client as my first concern and I see myself as a client centered therapist who continuously reflects on her practice. I strongly believe in sex education and promotion of good sexual health. I have a total of 10 years therapeutic training in various modalities and can support a wide range of client presentations. I have worked in the NHS (managing psychotherapy services) and private practice. 

contact: Sex Therapy Herts

Armrget Kaur

Armrget Kaur
(pronounced Amajeet) 

Psychosexual Therapist; Masters in Child Abuse, Supervisor

Specialist areas:
Trauma. Adult Attachment assessment in therapy.
Child abuse & Adult abuse trauma trained
Individual and couples, Domestic abuse
Anxiety, Addiction; Offenders
Compulsive sexual behaviour disorder (BDSM)
Chemsex, GSRD. Gender related themes
Intergenerational Racial Trauma
Eating disorder, Mental Health

Locations: Online only (UK Wide)

I am conscientious, professional and client focused therapist, and have worked with individuals, couples and families for some 30 years in varied roles and organisations. Although my Social Work career was mostly in Child Protection, I also worked as a specialist adult practitioner with HIV clients within the clinical setting. I describe myself as a highly organised and efficient practitioner, whose humanistic approach has generated excellent results. I am very comfortable with online work and have adapted really well to the new ways of working with challenging emotional issues. 

email: armrgetk@gmail.com
tel: 07542 796069

Dr Susannah Grant

Christine Robinson

Therapist/Counsellor

Specialist areas:
Compulsive sexual behaviours
Trauma

Locations: Online only

I am a trauma informed person-centered therapist with many years’ experience as a counsellor working with rape and child abuse survivors.

I have now decided to step into the world of Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, and I am excited to begin the next chapter of my therapy work.

email: viribus1066@gmail.com


Agnes Nereah Mosobela

Agnes Nereah Mosobela

Psychosexual Therapist
Registered Member of COSRT

Specialist areas:
Sexual dysfunctions therapy for individuals and couples: erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, orgasmic and arousal difficulties, sexual desire disorders, penetration pain/difficulty.

Locations: Online only

I am a Relate trained Psychosexual Therapist, and a Sexual Health nurse, a combination which has helped in providing me with skills to appreciate mixed origins of sexual difficulties, and be able to notice when pharmacological input is applicable. My main approach is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. I have special interest in working with women who experience sexual difficulties as a result of Female Genital Mutilation.
Current training: Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour (CICS)

email: mosobela2017@gmail.com
tel: 07745 130280


Sami Almutairi

Sami Almutairi

Counsellor
BACP registered member: 759628

Specialist areas:
Integrative counsellor, Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, Chemsex and GSRD

Locations: I offer face to face in 3 locations:
* Fridays in Fulham Broadway
1st Floor, c/o Drakes of London
19 Jerdan Place, London SW6 1BE

* Mondays and Thursdays in Clapham
The Awareness Therapy Centre
C41 Abbeville Clapham, SW4 9JX

* Tuesdays in Southfield
The Equilibrium Therapy Centre
88 Pulborough Rd, Southfields, SW18 5UJ

As a therapist, I am interested in building a therapeutic relationship between us” The relationship is the therapy” (Kahn, 1997).
Within the safe, secure, comfortable and trusted professional relationship with me, I hope you would be encouraged to look into all aspects that you might find difficult, stressful and cause you to feel more anxious. The process of therapy is to help you unlock your potential and discover other possibilities to cope, overcome and perhaps start the process of healing.
I work in an integrative and holistic way. I can draw upon a range of approaches that will enable further process in your therapy.
Since the outbreak of Covid19 I am offering therapy face to face and remotely – online- such as Zoom, Google hangout, Skype and WhatsApp.
I offer English or Arabic counselling.
I am fully qualified, with extensive experience working in a wide variety of settings with people from all walks of life.
With me we can explore any topic including stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, sleep issues, lack of coping with relationships, loss, traumatic experiences, work, cultural issues, depression, bereavement, addiction, eating habits, personality disorders and sexuality, intimacy and LGBTQ matters.
We all have come across many different feelings; Anxiety. Loneliness. Depression. Anger. Stress. Grief. Frustration. Disconnection. Fear. Helplessness. Nervousness. Confusion. Uncertainties.
You can also make use of counselling and psychotherapy to review your life as a whole with a view to simply grow in awareness and effectiveness.
I trust you will find me warm, approachable and professional.

Sami Almutairi سامي المطيري

email: info@amaltherapies.com
tel: 07527 470400


Sex Therapy Herts

Sex Therapy Herts 

Sex Therapy Herts is a low cost specialist sex and relationship therapy service based in Letchworth Garden City and online.

We bring a contemporary approach to our therapy work, drawing on the latest research and thinking to offer effective treatment approaches to our clients. All of our team are members of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists, the largest accrediting body of sex and relationship therapists in the UK.

Our team is also strongly allied to Pink Therapy and we offer culturally sensitive therapy for people identifying as LGBTQ+. We are kink aware and take a non-pathologising, sex positive approach to people with specific sexual preferences and high sex drives.


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