Essential Sex Positivity Reading 

Psychology Today
Talking Sex and Relationships

Read Silva Neves’ articles on Psychology Today.

Sex-positive discussions on sexuality and relationship diversity on Psychology Today.

Smart Sex Smart Love Podcast
Smart Sex - Smart Love Podcast

Helping clients recovery from the trauma of ‘sex addiction’ treatments.

Becky Crepsley-Fox
Sex Unshackled with Becky Crepsley-Fox - Podcast

Understanding compulsive sexual behaviour with Silva Neves. 

CICS Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology
Online Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour

Become a specialist in working with Compulsive Sexual Behaviours with Silva Neves at CICS. The CICS Online Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour offers specialist training in working with clients who feel that their sexual behaviour is out of their control.

Accredited Diploma in Clinical Sexology

Become a Clinical sexologist (psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist) with the UK's top training institute: CICS.

IOSS International Online Sexology Supervisors
IOSS - International Online Sexology Supervisors

Distinguished experts in each field of clinical sexology.

Pink Therapy - Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversities
Pink Therapy

The UK's largest independent therapy organisation working with gender, sex and relationship diversity.

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Cyndi Darnell - Sex when you don't feel like it
Cyndi Darnell
Sex when you don't feel like it. 

A useful and practical guide to understanding both low and high libido in modern relationships.
Packed with clinical data and helpful exercises to develop insight and clarity, readers are led through myths, facts and powerful stories about sex and love, to create a unique erotic template for a satisfying sex life.

Jo Divine Sex Toys
Jo Divine

Interested in sex toys? Explore and shop with Jo Divine.

Betty Martin
The Wheel Of Consent

The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin.

The Sexual Wellness Sessions with Kate Moyle
The Sexual Wellness Sessions with Kate Moyle

The Sexual Wellness Sessions Podcast is a series of interviews hosted by Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist Kate Moyle. So many of these conversations about sex and relationships are happening behind the therapy room door; and Kate wants to bring them into the mainstream so that sexual wellbeing can get the attention it deserves.

Julie Sale
Sale, J. (2019).
Are you an accidental conversion therapist? 

Blog from The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology. 

Ted Talks Cameron Staley
Changing the narrative around the addiction story

What is it that creates acceptance ? or unacceptance? Join this discussion by Cameron Staley on Pornography addiction. It's time to change how we talk about "pornography addiction", and it all starts, with mindfulness.

Meg-John Barker
Meg-John Barker

Re-writing the rules. Blog, Events and Books from a queer therapeutic writer who supports folk in communities around their creativity.

Sex Therapy Herts
Sex Therapy Herts

Sex Therapy Herts is a low cost specialist sex and relationship therapy service based in Letchworth Garden City and online.

We bring a contemporary approach to our therapy work, drawing on the latest research and thinking to offer effective treatment approaches to our clients. All of our team are members of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists, the largest accrediting body of sex and relationship therapists in the UK.

Our team is also strongly allied to Pink Therapy and we offer culturally sensitive therapy for people identifying as LGBTQ+. We are kink aware and take a non-pathologising, sex positive approach to people with specific sexual preferences and high sex drives. 

Lisa Etherson
Lisa Etherson

Psychosexual Therapist

Lisa Etherson Sex Therapy is based in a discrete location in North Shields. She offers sex therapy and sex counselling for clients in North East, with easy access for those travelling from Newcastle, Sunderland, Durham and surrounding areas. On-line therapy can sometimes be accommodated on request.

Sex Therapy Herts
Online group therapy for men who feel their sexual behaviours are out of control

Carl Mojta offers a collaborative, compassionate, and systemic approach to therapy with couples and individuals.

"I consider working with each client to be a privilege and collaborative therapeutic experience. If you’re looking for extra support and guidance through a challenging situation or you’re just ready to move in a new direction in your life, I look forward to working with you to achieve your goals and hopes for your life."


Compulsive Sexual Behaviours.  A psycho-sexual treatment guide for clinicians by Silva Neves

Treating Out of Control Sexual Behaviors. Re-thinking sex addiction.  Douglas Braun-Harvey and Michael Vigorito

Becoming a Kink Aware Therapist.  Caroline Shahbaz and Peter Chirinos

The Erotic Mind.  Jack Morin

Sex Addiction, a critical history.   Barry Reay, Nina Attwood, Claire Gooder

Transforming Sexual Narratives.  A relational approach to sex therapy by Suzanne Lasenza

LGBTQ Clients in Therapy. Clinical issues and treatment strategies.  Joe Kort

Safe, Sane and Consensual.  Darren Langdridge and Meg-John Barker

The Modern Clinician’s Guide to Working with LGBTQ+ Clients: The Inclusive Psychotherapist.  Margaret Nichols

Pink Therapy: A Guide for Counsellors and Therapists Working with Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Clients.  Dominic Davies and Charles Neal

The Myth of Sex Addiction.  David Ley Ph.D

Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasur.  David Ley Ph.D

The Sex Myth, Why Everything We’re Told Is Wrong.  Dr Brooke Magnanti

Perv, The Sexual Deviant in All of Us.  Jesse Bering

Come As You Are.  Emily Nagoski

Mind The Gap.  Dr Karen Gurney

The New Male Sexuality.  Bernie Zilbergeld

Tell Me What You Want.  Dr Justin Lehmiller

The Ethical Slut.  Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

Porn Panic, Sex and Censorship in the UK.  Jerry barnett

Sex Outside the Lines.  Chris Donaghue

Rewriting the Rules.  Meg-John Barker

Sexuality, A Graphic Guide.  Meg-John Barker

Sex Ed: A Guide For Adults.  Ruby Rare

Cracking The Erotic Code: helping gay men understand their sexual fantasies.  Joe Kort

The State of Affairs. Re-Thinking Infidelity.  Esther Perel

Mating In Captivity.  Esther Perel

Decoding Your Kink.  Galen Fous, MTP


CICS: The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology

The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

Pink Therapy

UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy):

The European Society for Sexual Medicine

The European Federation of Sexology

The Hanover Centre

The Anti Racist Book Club

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