Resources

by SILVA NEVES

Essential Sex Positivity Reading 

Psychology Today
Talking Sex and Relationships


Read Silva Neves’ articles on Psychology Today.

Sex-positive discussions on sexuality and relationship diversity on Psychology Today.

Smart Sex Smart Love Podcast
Smart Sex - Smart Love Podcast


Helping clients recovery from the trauma of ‘sex addiction’ treatments.

CICS
CICS Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour


The CICS Diploma in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour offers specialist training in working with clients who feel that their sexual behaviour is out of their control.

IOSS International Online Sexology Supervisors
IOSS - International Online Sexology Supervisors


Distinguished experts in each field of clinical sexology.

Pink Therapy - Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversities
Pink Therapy


The UK's largest independent therapy organisation working with gender, sex and relationship diversity.

Mojo
Get better erections


Do you have unreliable erections?
Find all the help you need with Mojo.

Betty Martin
The Wheel Of Consent


The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin.

The Sexual Wellness Sessions with Kate Moyle
The Sexual Wellness Sessions with Kate Moyle


The Sexual Wellness Sessions Podcast is a series of interviews hosted by Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist Kate Moyle. So many of these conversations about sex and relationships are happening behind the therapy room door; and Kate wants to bring them into the mainstream so that sexual wellbeing can get the attention it deserves.

Julie Sale
Sale, J. (2019).
Are you an accidental conversion therapist? 


Blog from The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology. 

Ted Talks Cameron Staley
Changing the narrative around the addiction story


What is it that creates acceptance ? or unacceptance? Join this discussion by Cameron Staley on Pornography addiction. It's time to change how we talk about "pornography addiction", and it all starts, with mindfulness.

Meg-John Barker
Meg-John Barker


Re-writing the rules. Blog, Events and Books from a queer therapeutic writer who supports folk in communities around their creativity.

Sex Therapy Herts
Online group therapy for men who feel their sexual behaviours are out of control


Carl Mojta offers a collaborative, compassionate, and systemic approach to therapy with couples and individuals.

"I consider working with each client to be a privilege and collaborative therapeutic experience. If you’re looking for extra support and guidance through a challenging situation or you’re just ready to move in a new direction in your life, I look forward to working with you to achieve your goals and hopes for your life."




READING LIST

Compulsive Sexual Behaviours.  A psycho-sexual treatment guide for clinicians. Silva Neves

Sexual Diversity. Being Human through Understanding and Acceptance. Silva Neves

Sexology: The Basics. Silva Neves

Erotically Queer. A Pink Therapy Guide for Practitioners. Edited by Silva Neves and Dominic Davies

Relationally Queer: A Pink Therapy Guide for Practitioners. Edited by Silva Neves and Dominic Davies

Positive Sexuality. A Promising Future for Sex Research, Education, and Practice. Edited by Emily E. Prior and D J Williams

New Directions in Sex Therapy. Innovations and Alternatives. Edited by Peggy J. Kleinplatz

What Do We Know About the Effects of Pornography After Fifty Years of Academic Research? Alan McKee, Katerina Litsou, Paul Byron and Roger Ingham.

What Is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships. Marie Thouin.

Drop The Disorder + Do Something! Edited by Jo Watson.

Tech Smart Parenting. How to Keep Your Kids Happy & Safe Online. Catherine Knibbs.

An Intersectional Guide for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Their Allies. Masculinity Reconnected. Jeremy Sachs.

Bareback Porn, Porous Masculinities, Queer Futures. The Ethics of Becoming-Pig. João Florêncio

Sex when you don’t feel like it. Cyndi Darnell

Treating Out of Control Sexual Behaviors. Re-thinking sex addiction.  Douglas Braun-Harvey and Michael Vigorito

Becoming a Kink Aware Therapist.  Caroline Shahbaz and Peter Chirinos

The Erotic Mind.  Jack Morin

Sex Addiction, a critical history.   Barry Reay, Nina Attwood, Claire Gooder

Transforming Sexual Narratives.  A relational approach to sex therapy. Suzanne Lasenza

LGBTQ Clients in Therapy. Clinical issues and treatment strategies.  Joe Kort

Safe, Sane and Consensual.  Darren Langdridge and Meg-John Barker

The Modern Clinician’s Guide to Working with LGBTQ+ Clients: The Inclusive Psychotherapist.  Margaret Nichols

The Myth of Sex Addiction.  David Ley Ph.D

Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasur.  David Ley Ph.D

The Sex Myth, Why Everything We’re Told Is Wrong.  Dr Brooke Magnanti

Perv, The Sexual Deviant in All of Us.  Jesse Bering

Come As You Are.  Emily Nagoski

Mind The Gap.  Dr Karen Gurney

Tell Me What You Want.  Dr Justin Lehmiller

The Ethical Slut.  Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

Porn Panic, Sex and Censorship in the UK.  Jerry barnett

Sex Outside the Lines.  Chris Donaghue

Rewriting the Rules.  Meg-John Barker

Sexuality, A Graphic Guide.  Meg-John Barker

Sex Ed: A Guide For Adults.  Ruby Rare

Cracking The Erotic Code: helping gay men understand their sexual fantasies.  Joe Kort

The State of Affairs. Re-Thinking Infidelity.  Esther Perel

Mating In Captivity.  Esther Perel

Decoding Your Kink.  Galen Fous, MTP



ORGANISATIONS

CICS: The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology
https://www.theinstituteofsexology.org

The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
http://www.cosrt.org.uk/

Pink Therapy
https://www.pinktherapy.com

UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy):
https://www.psychotherapy.org.uk

The European Society for Sexual Medicine
http://www.essm.org/

The European Federation of Sexology
http://www.europeansexology.com

The Hanover Centre
https://www.hanovercentre.com

The Anti Racist Book Club
https://www.antiracistbookclub.co.uk/index.html


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